It took me forever to read this. I struggled to identify with the mother, she never comes clearly into focus. Her daughter, Veronica or Ronnee is far more interesting.Judith Kirscht
A woman dedicated to civil rights takes in the daughter of her conservative sister. This is a story of coping with the polarization of the Sixties and resonates with the ideological split of our own times. It reveals the conflict between motherhood and ideology. I may resonate more deeply because I was raising a family in Ann Arbor during the tumult of those times and know the power of the Sixties to tear apart a family, but it is, I think, a good read for anyone who has faced ideological, cultural, class, or racial conflict within the family.Monica
I just lost the long review I wrote so here it is in a nutshell:-a 2.5 rather than a 3 because the writing is long-winded and bogs down the story-premise so interesting, lots of point for discussion for a reading group-really wanted to like this book, but ended up being disappointedJean Perry
Tthe 1st one of hers i hd read. It was a good characterization of mother/dgt relationships, black/white relationships, family/friends relationships. Much of the book is written as the introspections of the character being focused on at the moment, rather then dialogue between characters...............There was a lot of back and forth btwn today and 2 decades ago, that's not my favorite process of story-telling........................... There were sev'l places where the author was very verbose, saying in 200 words what could have been said in 50 and i skimmed thru much of that. There were passages that didn't have any effect on the story, IMO, and again i skimmed. A C+ for me.Karen
I hate putting down a book when I am halfway done, but I just couldn't get through it. It was just too slow.Heidi Naylor
Reading this now . . . trying to learn craft techniques from Rosellen Brown, whose stories I always respond well to. The story is the reunion of an upscale, white Houston mom with the (half) black daughter she delivered and then relinquished during the turmoil of the civil rights movement. I teach a class in research writing, based in the 1960s, and so this is especially relevant in light of what I'm always "into" from that decade.The pacing is thoughtful (read: on the slow side); this is not a "chase" book, but the writing is lovely and the characters are so real. In one powerful scene, the mom, who's taken the newly met daughter up to her New England summer home for a chance to get reacquainted, runs into a summer friend and DOESN"T INTRODUCE HER DAUGHTER AS HER DAUGHTER. You want to hate her, but her flaws are woven with love and regret and a real desire to reach out to her (quite difficult) daughter, and you end up in sympathy.Another great read from Brown: Before and After. But skip the movie, which was way underdeveloped.